The PAIN in Life's Lessons

     Here i am over 8 years apart / separated from my family. Over 2 years since the divorce was official.
     People help (or hurt) people. It is a conscience choice made at the benifit of or the suffering of one or the other.
     Why ? Is my query, as i cannot grasp the prospect of knowing that you are harming a fellow human being, yet have a hollow ability to pretend otherwise. Like NOT ALLOWING CHILDREN and a PARENT to be together. Like with no emotion nor conviction a mother demeans/debase the father to such a serious degree, 8 plus years pass without her nor every other person included in this mock up that portrays a peaceful man as a social path  or monster who suddenly overnight cannot be trusted with his own children. :(.
       I have no life outside my own little world that spends most every available moment despairing over my loss, my heart ache, a pain that is not normal nor should be allowed, but it is allowed.
       Don't be a judge of others, nor condemn a man by hearsay of a bitter woman. Stop the abuse and suffering before it becomes to late.